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Evaluating Potential Leaders

The Great commission states clearly that we are to go and make disciples.  This means we are suppose to be multiplying disciples, leaders, and churches.  All too often though there is a real vacuum in leadership development.  If we want leaders available when we need them then we must be ready and willing to invest the time and effort into developing them. II Timothy 2:2 teaches this process of Paul to Timothy, to faithful men, and then to others also.  We see the win as Timothy but the real win is Timothy fulfilling his calling by discipling others.

It is easy to see this process throughout Pauls’ life and ministry.  Acts 14:21-22 puts it like this, “After they had evangelized that town and made many disciples, they returned to Lystra, to Iconium, and to Antioch, strengthening the disciples by encouraging them to continue in the faith and by telling them, ‘It is necessary to pass through many troubles on our way into the kingdom of God.’”  The elements are seen in evangelization, making disciples, strengthening them, and encouraging them.  It involves spending time with and doing life with those we wish to develop.

Much has been taught, said, preached, and written on the importance of leadership development but there are some very simple things to consider such as a selection process and character assessment.  Never be willing to overlook character flaws because the person has charisma and is very “gifted.”  There must be a time of watching an individual and making sure that we do not elevate individuals to positions of leadership too quickly.  How will you determine if they are ready to take the next steps?  First, you need to consider a way of assessing their character. 

Here is what Aubry Malphurs says in his excellent tool Character Assessment for Men for Ministry, “Over the years, leaders have discovered that godly character is critical to effective ministry for Christ. However, no one is perfect, and all of us have our weaknesses and flaws as well as strengths. This character assessment is to help you determine your character strengths and weaknesses so that you can know where you are strong and where you need to develop and grow. The characteristics are found in 1 Tim. 3:1-7 and Titus 1:6-9.”

Consider putting your own assessment together that evaluates where the disciple is on this pathway to increasing their leadership position and influence.  What traits and actions are necessary for them to possess for you to consider them in a leadership pole?  Decide what is nonnegotiable to you and your ministry.  Make sure that you give potential leaders projects before you give them positions.  Run from those who appear to be looking for a title more than they desire to serve and help others.  Have the core value that no one can be a leader who does not first serve.  Jesus said, “I came not to be served but to serve.”   

In a recent vision and strategy meeting with my good friend Kevin Marsico he stated that we should always be looking for three very important elements of character.  

  1. What are the values we want them to believe?  
  2. What are the skill sets they need to be practicing?
  3. What are the qualities they need to be exhibiting?  

In order to better discern these three areas, evaluate them on a scale of 1 to 10 with 5 being acceptable but needing some work.  Raise the expectations because leadership demands a greater commitment and standard.

 Here is an example.  Do you believe in biblical tithing and do you faithfully practice it? If they give themselves a 5 then you would know that they tithe but they do not give much above and beyond that. Another way of phrasing that could be, “Are you a significant giver?”  Some believe it is wrong to check on peoples financial giving but you don’t have to know exactly what they giving.  The only quotation of Jesus recorded outside the gospels of a statement spoken by Him while He was on earth is, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35)  That is significant! 

This point is well made by Tony Morgan in The Unstuck Church, “As hard as it may be to believe, Jesus gave us a way of measuring someone’s heart.  It actually has nothing to do with words or actions, or attitudes. The measure has to do with money. He said, ‘Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.’  (Matthew 6:21)  It’s so true, isn’t it?  I know that to be the case in my life.  I can talk about full surrender all I want but my checkbook and my credit card statement tell the truth.  Where my treasure is there the desires of my heart will also be.”

As you develop this character assessment tool you should consider questions on tithing, healthy relationships, conflict management, prayer life, quiet time, sharing the gospel, and present involvement in ministry. Also, are they discipling anyone? Remember, this is about leadership development not just a job application.  It is not meant to be an interview to decide yes or no but rather a healthy and helpful spiritual evaluation to determine what needs to be worked on and changed.  The journey will determine whether or not they will be able to take the next step!

Leadership development flows out of your discipleship process.  Begin discipling and then be watching for those who seem to want more.  Their passion is evident and they usually will push you more than you push them.  Jesus discipled twelve but He then focused on three.  What three potential leaders do you see and feel the Lord telling you to invest in and spend the time necessary to develop these potential leaders?     

Daniel Chapters 7-10

Daniel 7 – (v. 9, 14)

         *The Ancient of Days!

         *He is the sovereign one of the universe.

         *He not only is the creator but the sustainer of all things!

                   *Thought: One day His kingdom will be established and implemented here on earth and nothing or no one will be able to stop it.

Daniel 8 – (v. 15-17, 27)

         *Sometimes your words are hard and difficult.

         *We will not always understand because you are God.

         *Your ways are not my ways!  Thank goodness!

                   *Thought:  Your ways are just and righteous and we never have to be afraid of your directions because you are trustworthy!

Daniel 9 – (Daniel’s Prayer)

         *It began with confession!

         *He confesses the public shame that belongs to Israel.

         *Yet, Daniel says in v. 9, “Compassion and forgiveness belong to the        Lord our God, though we have rebelled against Him.”

                   *Thought: We need to cry out for God’s forgiveness and mercy not only for our sins but for the sins of our nation!

Daniel 10 – (v.12)

         *We do not need to fear when we approach You humbly.

         *“You prayed and I am here!”

         *His presence is of far greater value then the answer!

                   *Thought:  When we are in your presence that is enough and we trust you for the details.

Daniel Chapters 4 – 6

Daniel 4 – (v. 3, 30, & 37)

            *Were the king’s proclamations real and from the heart?

            *Verse 30 is all about his glory and who he was; not God!

            *Nebuchanezzar had to be humbled to truly declare God as God!

*Thought:  They honor me with their lips but their heart is far from me!                                                

Daniel 5 – (v. 22-23)

            *Don’t fool yourself that you judgment is not real!

            *God is longsuffering and gracious but we should push that too far!

            *Be sure that your sin will find you out!

*Thought:  Always be prepared to meet God!

Daniel 6 – (v. 3-4, 8)

            *Think of the wonderful testimony had with unbelievers.

            *They could not find any charge against his spirit or his character.

            *The power of Daniel’s godly example is undeniable.

*Thought: Some people will use our relationship and walk with God against us when they can find nothing else!

S.O.A.P. Journaling / Daniel

Here are some observations that God impressed on my heart as I SOAPed through this challenging and inspiring book:

Chapter 1:

v. 8 You must determine, decide, resolve, make the decision to remain faithful to Him no matter what everyone else is doing!

v. 20 God’s ways are always 10 times better!!!

Chapter 2:

v. 28 God will give you what you need to know when you need to know it!!!

Chapter 3:

v. 16-18 God’s got this! He can handle any challenge, any obstacle and any difficulty that comes our way!

What are you learning and what are your observations?

QUIT DIGGING

It has been said, “If you are in a hole, rule number one is to stop digging.” That certainly sums up many other statements that could be made about a church that is no longer healthy.  Yet, all too often, that church continues to do the very things that made her unhealthy.  In The Unstuck Church, Tony Morgan says, “What got the church on life support will not make it healthy again.” There is such a need to consider prayerful evaluation of where your church is (healthy versus unhealthy), why it is unhealthy, and what needs to be done to make it healthy again. 

There is another saying that goes like this, “Hope springs eternal.”  The problem is that biblical godly hope is not just a pie in the sky dream.  It is more than just wishful thinking.  Romans 5:5 says, “This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”  You see the hope of God will not disappoint because He acted on that hope and came to provide us a way to have a relationship with Him.  It is not enough to think that hoping things will change will actually produce healthy change.

We constantly say things like; “I sure hope someone fixes that”, “I sure hope someone shares the gospel with them”, or “I sure hope things get better.”  Hope by itself alone will not win people to Jesus, disciple new converts, plant a church, keep a church healthy, or get a dying church off life support.  The reality is that hope is not a strategy and you need a plan to quit digging and know what to do after the digging stops.  God had a strategy to deliver hope, “When the time came to completion, God sent His Son, born of a woman, born under the law.”  (Gal 4:4)

How do you stop digging deeper?  Begin by evaluating where you are and if you are healthy.  

First, will you develop a clear and compelling vision that all of your people can clearly articulate.  A lack of vision is one characteristic that shows up in churches that begin to drift from their mission and begin to decline. Your vision needs to specifically describe the next steps your church will take to begin getting healthy by developing healthy steps and practices for your people to take.  Mission is why you exist and is where you are headed.

Second, how will you make disciples and what does discipleship look like in your church?  Jim Putman in Real Life Discipleshipdescribes discipleship as an intentional leader, with a relational environment, and a reproducible process.  Discipleship that is complicated and confusing will not produce healthy disciples.  Chances are they will not produce disciples at all.  Do you have a reproducible process with clear steps that moves people from where they are to where God wants then to be?  These steps lead from spiritual birth to spiritual parenthood. 

Third, how will you lead your church to remain outwardly focused with a heart of generosity?  The church does not exist only for those who are already there. Tony Morgan in The Unstuck Churchsays, “It’s impossible for any church to be healthy and experience growth if nothing they do is designed to reach people who are outside the faith and outside the church.”   You must prioritize people who are outside your church by showing them the love of Christ in practical ways.  You have to quit digging the hole of only focusing on who is already there. 

The second part of this is by being a generous church.  Ask yourself whether or not your church leans toward being generous or protecting and holding on to what you have?  When we lean toward being a generous church then we lean more toward being like Christ.  When we lean toward being stingy then we lean further away from Him.  Romans 5:5 says, “This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”  His loved was poured out to us so that we would pour that love out to others. 

This principle of generosity is stressed in Galatians 6 by telling us we should not get tired of doing good and with every opportunity we have we should labor for the good of everyone.  This biblical principle of practicing generosity should always characterize how we treat those outside the church.  We should remain generous regardless of how many times we think that people have taken advantage of our generosity.  Resist the temptation to focus on maintenance and preservation of what you already have.  God gave you what you have to invest it into His kingdom work! 

Fourth, lead your church in these areas with strength and courage.  You must do whatever is necessary to get your church healthy and reach new people with the gospel.  Some will want to continue digging the hole deeper and deeper but you must lead them to lay down their shovels and crawl out of the hole.  There will be opposition but you cannot wait for everyone to get on board.  Pray hard and then begin to develop a plan of attack on how you will get healthy, your church leaders will be healthy, and then so your church will be healthier.              

Lead your people with a vision of making disciples who make disciples.  The time is now to become a strong leader.  Until you begin to make the necessary changes to become healthy the plan has only been a conversation.  Once you begin to take the actual steps toward becoming healthy there will be opposition.  Not everyone will be happy that you have decided to stop digging the hole deeper and deeper.  Lead anyway toward biblical church health!  

S.O.A.P. Journaling

S.O.A.P.ing the scriptures is one of our discipleship engines here at Cornerstone.  It is a Bible reading schedule we follow as a church.

SOAP is our first tool to stay CENTERED ON GOD!  It keeps us on target for our daily quiet time with the Lord! 

It stands for:

  • Scripture
  • Observation
  • Application
  • Prayer

This reaffirms our faith in the power of the Word of God and the Holy Spirit speaking into our lives and hearts.

This is a simple grid to help you think through what you are going to do during your study/quiet time always asking 2 questions:

  • What is God saying?
  • What does He want me to do about it?

S.O.A.P. Journaling is an excellent way to both record and process what God has spoken to us. It’s also a useful tool to use at a later time, to reflect on and review some of the ‘gems’ that you have received. Without writing them down, you may forget those blessings and some very important lessons! And while journaling is a very personal time with the Lord, you may want to share some of your daily journaling with your small group or mentors. Through discussion, you may be able to look deeper into what God is speaking to you, gain new insight and even encourage others. 

S = Scripture 

This is where you open your Bible to the reading found under today’s date in our monthly schedule. Take time reading and allow God to speak to you. When you are done, look for a verse that particularly spoke to you that day, and write it in your journal.

O = Observation 

What do you think God is saying to you in this scripture? Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you and reveal Jesus to you. Paraphrase and write this scripture down in your own words, in your journal. 

A = Application 

Personalize what you have read, by asking yourself how it applies to your life right now. Perhaps it is instruction, encouragement, revelation of a new promise, or corrections for a particular area of your life. Write how this Scripture can apply to you today. 

P = Prayer 

This can be as simple as asking God to help you use this scripture, or it may be a greater insight on what He may be revealing to you. Remember, prayer is a two way conversation, so be sure to listen to what God has to say! Now, write it out. 

Some have added and S. on the end making it:    S.O.A.P.S.

The last S. stands for Share:

  • Who do you need to share this truth with?
  • Who do you need to encourage?

Our Cornerstone SOAP schedule is posted on our website thestone3.com

Start looking here for some observations God is showing me out of the the book of Daniel!!! Dig in and allow His word to speak to you!

VISION FOR HIS MISSION

There is a great visionary question we all need to ask ourselves expressed by Dr Kenneth E. Priddy,  “How does God want to express Himself through our church in our community at this time?” Churches have spent countless hours planning, discussing, and preparing vision statements only to place them in a file in a desk drawer.  Here is the reality.  Having a vision statement in no way guarantees that your church will be a visionary congregation.  Developing a vision and mission statement is a great step in the right direction, but it is only the first step.

Just because we have aspirational values (who we desire to be) that does not guarantee that they are actually our values. Ken Priddy continues, “Most congregations claim allegiance to the Great Commandment and the Great Commission, but few truly demonstrate a sacrificial love for neighbors or a serious commitment to outreach and evangelism.”  How true and sad it is to see churches that know they should be pursuing the lost but lament new people coming into their congregation and the church growing.

How do we ignore and reject the clear teaching of the word of God that the early church was growing and flourishing?  We read several times of how they added to the congregation and even how they multiplied.  When Christians are no longer functioning as they should they begin to fall prey to becoming insider focused on those they already have.  The voices of people inside the church become louder than those outside the church and outside the faith.  The vision stales and fades over time because it must be renewed regularly.

 Unfortunately, the how becomes a higher priority than the why. Ministry silos begin to form as members only focus on “their” ministry and “their” area.  They build silos that they protect and begin creating a “them versus us “ mentality.  How can you tell when this is beginning to happen?

  1. Complacency and the status quo begin to replace commitment and sacrifice.  
  2. Being served and your personal needs being met begin to replace serving others. 
  3. The bottom dollar and watching the budget begins to replace ministry and generosity.

In developing a mission statement here are a couple of terms you need to understand.  You do not have to lift a finger or do anything for the downward slide toward selfishness to happen because we all drift that way naturally. Dr. Priddy continues, “In order to move the congregation toward new vitality, you must get buy-in or ownership in the Great Commission vision and strategy that must prevail.  You’re not looking for simple agreement, cooperation or consensus; you’re looking for conviction.”  Conviction confirmed through the word of God and the Holy Spirit.

First, we must understand the term mission.  The mission of God is why we exist.  It is His mission and it is mandated and commanded by Him.  We do not get to vote on it.  Our only choice is to be obedient or to be disobedient.  The mission of God does not change because He came to seek and to save that which was lost.  Your church does not have a mission.  God’s mission has churches that are to obediently carry it out.  If we are not reaching new people with the gospel of Jesus Christ then we really do not have any biblical foundation to function or exist.

Second, we must understand the term vision.  The vision is where we are headed and a picture of a preferred future.  We lose sight of the mission we are on and our vision to carry out that mission begins to fade.  Maybe this explains why, on average, churches under three years old reach one new convert for every three members.  Churches that are three to seven years old reach one new convert per seven members but churches over ten years old have one new convert for every eighty nine members. Could it be that we no longer have a vision for His mission?

Third, we need to understand the term strategy.  This answers the question of how we will carry out the vision. Doctrines remain the same but the methods of engaging ministry can be very different.  Your vision may be to reach a college campus with the gospel of Christ while your strategy will be the steps to make that happen.  How will you fulfill the vision God gave you of carrying out His mission?  You cannot choose the culture God has placed you in, but you can remain culturally relevant and biblically sound.  Just check out Acts 17.

 Fourth, we need to understand the term team.  This is who will carry out the strategy that the Holy Spirit has revealed to you through His word of carrying out His vision for your ministry.  God places different members on the team with varying gifts to be a complete body that functions fully the way God intended. Sometimes we see someone’s gift setasa threat or competition when in reality they are there to complement one another.  We should always be asking where do we need help and who has God given us to help us in that area? 

Fifth, we need to understand the term values.  This answers why we are doing what we are doing!  We need to check our motives and make sure they are biblically based.  Do we value His mission more than we value our preferences?  Plateaued and declining churches have begun to turn inward! These churches once valued the lost so much that they were willing to do just about anything, short of sin, to reach them with the gospel.  There was a time their church wept for them but now no one seems to remember any tears for the lost.

These five dynamics of the vision question are God’s vision, through your church, in your community, and at this time.  The mission has never changed, “Go and make disciples!”