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Ministry Support and Care

The ministry is not easy and we know that Paul warned Timothy and others of many challenges. The need for a team of others you can count on cannot be overstated. At running the risk of saying the same thing too often, allow me the opportunity to say it again, “The speed of the leader determines the speed of the team.” If you, as a spiritual leader, begin to struggle spiritually then before long others around you will begin to struggle also.

Protecting your walk with the Lord is paramount. You cannot allow yourself to get to the point of running on empty by not constantly abiding in Him. You must develop rhythms in your life where you daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and annually build systems in your life that continue to stir up the passion you have for Christ and the gift within you. What are you studying right now that is helping you to know Him better and develop a closer and more intimate relationship with Him?

On a regular basis I challenge church planters and pastors to properly care for themselves because if they are not spiritually healthy their families, friends, and ministries will not be far behind. One important aspect is to build a ministry care plan of support and accountability…having people around you that keep you on track and encourage you. They love you enough to tell you what you need to hear and provide a role in your life that you desperately need for balance and direction.

There are five roles I have told these leaders they all need to have. They need a supervisor, a coach, a mentor, a pastor, and a friend. The roles are important but can be adapted to fit your context. This does not mean you have to have five people because one person can fill two of the roles such as a friend can also be a mentor. There are certain roles that are harder to be fulfilled by the same person such as a supervisor and a coach. Lets take a look at each one of these roles.

The first is the role of supervisor!

This is the person or persons you answer to whether that is a boss, a committee, a group of elders, a board of trustees, or even a pastor accountability team. This is a team of individuals who plan with you, dream with you, and help you process God’s direction in your life. This person or persons serve as a sounding board and is far from being “yes” people. There will be tension at times but that is a good thing as wisdom is sought through prayer.

The second role is that of a coach!

According to Keith E. Webb’s definition, “Coaching is an on-going intentional conversation that empowers a person or group to fully live out God’s calling.” There is skill set that is necessary for being a good coach. It involves being a good listener and then asking good questions. We never show someone we value him or her more then when we are willing to listen to them. Do you have someone who listens well and then asks you the right questions?

The third role is that of a mentor!

The best definition I have heard of a mentor is that it is someone who has been where you want to go and is willing to help you get there. A coach pulls out but a mentor pours in. They know what you need to know and they are willing to take the time to share it with you. The best biblical example of this may be Paul pouring into Timothy but there is also Moses to Joshua and Elijah to Elisha. Do you have that individual in your life that can pour into yours?

The fourth role that everyone needs is a pastor!

We all need a spiritual shepherd who cares for our spiritual walk.   The reality is that we need someone in our lives that has a pastor’s heart for us and always wants what is best for us. They protect us from the wolves waiting to attack and devour us. They not only have a heart to protect us but they want to make sure we are properly nourished. They will always go to the word of God to direct us, correct us, reprove us, rebuke us, and strengthen us.

The fifth role is that of a friend!

Do you have that friend in your life that you know you can always count on and with whom you can always be completely transparent? True friends are very special people. David had his mighty men and there is wisdom in building a team of three friends around you. Those friends that you can always call on knowing they will be there to listen and encourage us. They are the kind of friends that you count on 24/7 who don’t walk out on you when times are difficult. You can always depend on them to be there when you need them.

Ministry care requires that we focus on our spiritual walk by building a team around us that will provide these critical roles in our lives. Can you name the people who fulfill these roles? Are you meeting and talking with them on a regular basis? If you are do not have this support system are you ready to prayerfully begin looking for them? Who fulfills the role of supervisor, coach, mentor, pastor, and friend in your life? Spiritual health requires accountability and spiritual care givers.